Getting started...

We started writing this blog in June 2018. It became an outlet to help process our feelings, hold us accountable, and work on together. We went back and forth on whether or not to make our blog public — especially where our posts are vulnerable, and we share a lot of personal information with you. We may overshare at times, but there are things Riley and I will keep to ourselves.

We are still in the process of finding true recovery and healing. We are in no way out of going through the hard, difficult times in our situation. We are just starting the thick of it all. The main reason we decided to publish our blog so early on into our recovery is that it is entirely out of the ordinary. Every podcast or blogger we follow seem to have life figured out. Even though we know they have their bad days. It can be discouraging at times to listen or see how well others are doing in their recovery, versus where we are in the process. So we want to let you in on what we are going through. Even though we will fail at times, we will show how we get back up and on the right path.

When I introduced Riley to a podcast, he took it and ran with it. While for me it was good, I hit a point where I could not attend to it anymore because of how easy they made everything seem. I felt like Riley, and I would never get to that point, so I stopped listening due to a lack of enthusiasm on my part. As Riley likes to put it, "I am the Debbie downer of life."

Hopefully, by being the opposite of others out there, you will be able to relate, and not get discouraged as I once was. We want to give as much insight into sexual addiction and betrayal trauma recovery as possible. Everyone's recovery journey, even if they are going through the same thing, will look different. No matter what, it is discouraging at times. Stay strong, and keep your head up. We are cheering for you, and will be in your corner.

With Love,

Tiffany & Riley